Take The Hint of Someone’s Disrespectful Behaviour & Stop Being So ‘Nice’ About It
Some people don’t know how to just come correct and be straight up about what they want, so for example, when they want to end your relationship, they choose to opt for behaving badly in the hopes that you will do their dirty work and call time on it. What’s even...
You can change your version of normal at any time
When you’ve witnessed or been through a lot of stuff as a child, a chunk of adulthood is spent trying to work out what’s normal because it quickly becomes apparent that what was ‘normal’ to you isn’t how things are in general or what you...
Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!
Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For...
When someone’s imposing something upon you, they’re trying to remove your choice (and overstepping your boundaries)
Over the past few weeks, I’ve frequently used the terms ‘imposing’ and ‘imposed’. I realised that you always know that there’s a major breach of boundaries and that you’re dealing with somebody who just doesn’t gel on...
