Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions

Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions

When we’re confronted with the realisation that our partner has done a  U-turn on previously expressed feelings and plans, it’s understandable  to feel horribly confused, disappointed, and more than a tad wounded. We may decide that it’s...
Getting Blinded By Your Principles

Getting Blinded By Your Principles

It’s the principle of the matter. Why should they get away with making a mug out of me?It’s the principle! They said that they loved me/would do _______! And I’ll be damned if they get away without delivering. I would never do/say _________ if I...