Superficial relationships signal the need to develop a more intimate relationship with ourselves

It can be pretty uncomfortable to acknowledge that sometimes we’re more superficial than we imagined ourselves to be. When we reflect, for instance, on our attraction to someone we experienced a great deal of pain with, we were often drawn to the appearance of...
About Loving You First

About Loving You First

To love someone is to know and understand them. It takes time and experience. Sometimes, we believe or assume that we know someone (or they know us). Then it becomes patently clear over time that there’s an understanding gap. Much as we might feel loving...