I’m still standing. You’re still standing. We’re still standing.

I’m still standing. You’re still standing. We’re still standing.

by | Happiness & Self-Esteem

There’s this falsehood that many people who are in the process of improving their self-esteem, addressing unhealthy or redundant habits, or who are thinking about doing any of these things, subscribe to, and it’s this idea that once we tackle whatever it is that we...
We need to talk about “selfish”

We need to talk about “selfish”

by | Boundaries

When we suppress and repress our own feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, we become oversensitised to those of others and develop a pesky habit of taking ownership of their feelings and behaviour. It’s as if in silencing us and being on high alert, we...
Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

by | Boundaries

Longtime readers may recall that while pregnant with my first daughter, I got into the hidden camera show ‘Cheaters’. The premise is people who suspect their partners of cheating have them investigated and followed… and then confront them. I know, I know. But I was...