Stop Letting Fear of Uncertainty Hijack Your Happiness

Stop Letting Fear of Uncertainty Hijack Your Happiness

One thing that many of us grownups struggle with is uncertainty. We can find it difficult to not know exactly what’s going to happen next. We want to be able to move through life with the confidence that comes with knowing that something is definite. If we had our...
Is it my issues or am I in the wrong relationship?

Is it my issues or am I in the wrong relationship?

It can be incredibly frustrating to desire healthier relationships and to have done some self work, only to get into a relationship and experience a near assault of confusing emotions that leave us struggling to distinguish between our own issues and the existence of...
Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

Snooping Never Leads To Anything Good

Longtime readers may recall that while pregnant with my first daughter, I got into the hidden camera show ‘Cheaters’. The premise is people who suspect their partners of cheating have them investigated and followed… and then confront them. I know, I know. But I was...
Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered

Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered

Picture this (adopts Sophia from Golden Girls voice): You meet somebody on a dating website (read: introduction website after all, you can’t actually ‘date’ on it), you exchange a few emails and texts, maybe you chat on the phone a few times and then...
Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For...