`nml's babies

This is a quick one, but I wanted to say merry Christmas and happy holidays to you all. I’ll be back in the next day or so, but remember to read ten Christmas survival tips for the heartbroken and lovers of assclowns and Mr Unavailables (also part two) if you’re in pain, wavering on making contact, or have already wavered.

Over the last week, there have been a few posts that coincide with some of the emotions and experiences that you may be going through, such as, if you have to wonder if your man is going to spend Christmas with you…run!

I would suggest that if you don’t know the score by now, that you should make other plans. Never be someone’s back up option or last resort that they can just call up and expect you to jump to their beat.

Also read resisting the temptation of making contact with your ex at Christmas, understanding when someoneone fakes a future with you, your love doesn’t equal their love, and how he’s not thinking about the future.

Other helpful reading includes: How I learned to love myself parts one and two.

But more importantly, go spend Christmas with someone who gives a damn about you. Hell, go and enjoy your Christmas! Enjoy YOU! Park whoever is on your mind, breathe out and enjoy yourself!

Don’t lose this time in a haze of wondering if he’ll call, text, or email, or jumping every time your phone rings, or fending off questions from your family and friends about why you look so miserable or why you keep going into the other room. Don’t isolate yourself because imposing that on you will cause you to seek sustenance from the very thing that detracts from you.

I’m off to hang with the kids and the boyf but after Christmas I will bear good tidings. Back in a couple of days.

Hugs, Natalie/NML xxx

PS, I’ve had quite a few emails asking about the kids who are now just over 8 months and 2.5 years so here is a pic of the divas!


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