Dating
- Forget Meeting the Parents: Spotting the Real Signs of a Rock-Solid Relationship
- Why There’s No ‘Easy Cook’ Recipe for Real Relationships
- Compliance Doesn’t ‘Win’ You a Relationship
- Dating Rules Don’t Work. Let’s Stop Blocking Intimacy.
- But Really, Is It ‘Okay’ To Date Somebody You Don’t See a Future With?
- When is it ‘okay’ to have sex? You decide, not the fake rules and shoulds
- Dating and avoiding getting hurt while seeking physical affection in a casual relationship
- Getting to Know Romantic Partners Doesn’t Have to Be Taken So Personally
- The stress and anxiety of figuring out the ‘etiquette’ of who pays for dates
- You can keep your options open while dating, but know your ‘why’
- Explaining boundary issues to a date will only violate you further
- Gambler’s Fallacy and Romantic Relationships
- Pay attention to bad vibes and red flags on those early dates
- Afraid of online dating? Here are 12 tips to get you started (or back into it)
- Online dating and the fear of ‘ruling people out’
- Intentional dating during coronavirus
- Why Online Dating Profiles Can’t Live Up To Real Life
- Is Your Next Logical Step The Same As Theirs?
- It’s Unrealistic To Expect Fast Confirmation of ‘No Red Flags’
- Advice Wednesday: We’ve Been Sexting For 6 Months But He Doesn’t Want A Relationship (Or To Meet Up)
- Have You Already Made Up Your Mind About Dating & Your Future Prospects?
- You Cannot Be An Equal In Your Relationships If You Treat Dating Like An Audition
- We Need To Talk About: ‘Ghosting’ In The Early Stages of Dating
- Are you afraid of being afraid?
- Are you hoping to strike gold as soon as you get on a dating website?
- Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered
- Why you don’t need to ask about exclusivity if the person you’re dating is ambiguous or even shady
- Do you have Dater’s Block?
- If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat
- Revisited: How To Avoid Being a Passing Time Candidate – 30 Signs That Somebody Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You
- Don’t change your mind about being yourself on a whim of chasing potential
- Calming That Anxiety: When You Feel Jittery In a New Relationship
- Are You Ready To Date? Can You Handle It Going Somewhere But Equally Can You Cope With Disappointment?
- What Does a Person Really Have To Do If We’re Willing To Excuse & Explain Away Everything?
- Keeping It Real About Online Dating – The People Supermarket
- When Someone Bails / Pulls The Slow Fade After You Say That You’re Not Ready To Sleep With Them Yet
- About Going In With An Open Mind
- Stop Skipping The Discovery Phase: Why It’s Time To Drop The Shortcuts That Aren’t Really Shortcuts
- It’s Just a Date, Not a Marriage Proposal & 9 Other Thoughts On Dating For The Weekend
- Can You Instantly Or Very Quickly Get To Know Someone?
- Instant Attraction and Chemistry Don’t Make You A Love Psychic
- It’s Not The X Factor: Stop Treating Dating Like You’re Auditioning For An Expert Judge
- Why You Shouldn’t Bust Your Boundaries To Give Yourself A ‘Competitive Edge’ In Dating
- Dating Is A Discovery Phase: Are you trying to strike up a relationship deal before you’ve ‘discovered’?
- Are You Ready To Date Again? Go Out and Find Out!
- Proportionate Responses: It’s JUST a text
- Everyone has the potential to be nice…but you’ve still got to go through the discovery phase of dating
- Slow Your Roll: Why Being Asked For Your Number is an Expression of Interest, Not a Guarantee
- Why Using Casual Relationships As a Back Door Route to a Relationship is a Deeply Flawed Plan
- The Trouble With Being Blinded By Intelligence in Dating and Relationships
- When you’re involved with a Rubbernecker – Are you comfortable being with someone who checks out others when they’re with you?
- Dealing With..Asking Guy’s Out…and No…You Don’t Need To Do It Because You Think He’s Shy
- Why We Shouldn’t Make It The Guy’s ‘Job’ To Do All the Calling and Making of Plans
- Dating Doesn’t Equal Relationship! It’s a Discovery Phase, Not a Relationship Guarantee
- Quiz: Are You Making These Common Dating and Relationships Assumptions?
- Quiz: Are You Ready To Start Dating Again?
- Raising Your Dating Standards: Why you shouldn’t be OK with lazy communication via text, email etc
- 30 Signs That Someone Isn’t Interested Or Is Half-Heartedly Interested In You: How To Avoid Being a Passing-Time Candidate
- Reclaim You: 100 Tips For Dating With Your Self-Esteem In Tow
- Why Dating Is a Discovery Phase To Work Out If You Want a Relationship (With Them)
- Using Sexual Atraction as a Judge of Character & Other Sexual Pitfalls
- Love Lessons: When You Can’t or Won’t Ask Questions When Dating (P4) -Getting To The Answers
- Love Lessons: When You Can’t or Won’t Ask Questions When Dating (P3) Communication is Not All Verbal
- Love Lessons: When You Can’t or Won’t Ask Questions When Dating (P2) Do You Have a Girlfriend/Wife?
- Myth: There Are No Good Men to Date – Part Four
- Myth: There Are No Good Men to Date (The one where we talk about the diminishing pool of older guys) Part 3
- Myth: There Are No Good Men to Date – Part One
- 10 Things That Make Online Dating Tricky If You Don’t Have Healthy Love Habits – Part Two
- 10 Things That Make Online Dating Tricky If You Don’t Have Healthy Love Habits Part One
- We had a great date – Why didn’t they call me back?
- Dating When You’re Lonely or Feel Time is Running Out
- Guest post: Striking the balance between being the ‘pursuer’ and the ‘pursued’
- Dating with fear and obsessing about your ex and no contact
- Five Key Questions to Ask Yourself Before Dating
- Dating Advice: Am I wrong not to have offered to pay my share on the date?
- Dating Advice: Should I make a move on my distant guy?
- Guest Post: The Dating Duenna
- Advice: How do I handle my guy at work?
- Guest post: How To Date Baggage FREE!
- No Ex On The First Date
- Attraction: 4 key things that make you attractive…or unattractive…
- Advice: How do I meet men? Meeting men when you’re conflicted and avoiding a serious relationship
- Advice: Do men like it when women make the first move? And how much interest should I show?
- Why don’t men call after a great date?
- When should a woman have sex with a man?
- Should Guys Always Pay for Dates?
- Tips for Dating Without Drama
- Decoding the Dating Statistics
- Age Gap Relationships
- Flirting Mistakes
- Your Past & Exes On Dates
- Defining The Relationship
- When He Can’t Stop Shopping Around Online
- There Is No Such Thing As Out of Your League
- 8 Things That Every Woman Should Steer Clear Of
- Ten Signs That He’s Mr Wrong
- Mixing Money & Men
- 9 Tips For Complimenting A Woman
- Should Women Just Ask Guys Out?
- 20 Signs That You’re Dating the Wrong Guy
- Holding The Sex In the Early stages of Dating
- ‘Average’ Men Turned Upside Down
- 8 Dating Mistakes to Avoid
- 10 Things No Man Should Do When Chatting Up a Woman – From The Archives
- How To Cope When Your Boyfriend is ‘Separated’
- My Guide to Dating a Co-Worker
- Should we have sex before we know what we’re getting from the relationship?
- Tips for Matchmaking
- 10 Things I Hate About Online Dating
- NML’s Roughguide to a New Long Distance Relationship
- Letting The Guy Pay on a Date.
- After The Holiday Romance
- How to Spot a Player (Playa)
- How long should it take for a man to call after a first date?
- There Are No Good Guys to Date!
- Mr Persistent
- Mr Too Nice to Date Twice
- Guest Post: Tips For Avoiding Mr Unavailables on Dating Sites
- First Date Mistakes
- Bad Date Conversation Topics
- Great Date Ideas
- Ten Signs That You Should ‘Abort’ the Dating Mission
- The End of Expensive Gifts For Women
- Guest Post: Dating Etiquette & Gender Roles
- Dating Hiatus – The Importance of Taking a Break from Dating and Sex
- Vixen’s Thoughts on Premature Planning
- The Window of Opportunity in Dating – There’s Only a Certain Amount of Time To Act Upon Interest
- Crossing The Divide: Heading From Single to Attached
- Am I Single Because I’m Picky?
- Why Do Guys Cancel Dates?
- Guest Post: On Dating
- Kissing School: The Do’s & Don’t’s
- Dating in the New Millennium
- Internet Dating & The Curse of Unrealistic Expectations
- How To Avoid Online Dating Hell
- What is a Nice Guy?
- Checking Out
- Is Online Dating the Way Forward?
- Tips For Great Date Conversations
- Upgrades vs Downgrades
- The Master List
- How Do You Know If You are a Couple?
- When Should You Meet His Friends?
- Vixen’s Guide to: Dealing with the Bastard that Stood You Up
- Vixen’s Guide to: Dating a Nice Guy
- Casual is a Bad Word When Uttered by Women, Apparently
- So You Want to Date Your Friend’s Ex
- Too Hot to Trot: A Guide to Dating the ‘Beautiful People’
- Multiple Dating – A Guide to Juggling a Few Men at the Same Time
- Boudoir Knickers: The New Staying-In Uniform
- Saying No is Not Wrong
- How to Get Me to Click on Your Online Ad…
- First Date Commandments
- Apparently, These 10 Traits Make You a ‘Great Girlfriend’
- How Do You Meet Men?
- Guest Post – Dating Games: The Pushey Pulley Game
- Losing Interest After First Date Sex
- But He’s ‘Average’
- How To Piss Off a Woman in a Club/Bar
- 5 Things That Men Shouldn’t Wear
- The Smell of Fear: Why I’ve Got To Be Optimistic About Meeting ‘The One’
- My Shade of Grass is Just Fine!
- “Why Not?”: When a guy asks why you won’t talk to or dance with him
- 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Have Sex with a Partner for the First Time
- Guest Post: The Men you MUST Avoid Like the Plague…
- Tips for Online Dating & Better Dating Profiles
- First Dates
Emotional Unavailability
- Our Codependency isn’t to Blame for Our Partner’s Emotional Unavailability
- It’s Most Definitely Not Your Job to Make a Romantic Partner Commit
- You’re not needy, impatient or pushy for wanting more than an unfulfilling relationship
- It takes time to know someone’s genuine level of emotional availability
- Jumping into relationships and belatedly realising commitment is involved
- 12 Signs You’re Settling for Crumbs in your Relationships
- Why they’re still emotionally unavailable despite how much you tried
- ‘Entanglement’ and what happens when we look outside ourselves to feel good
- ‘Why am I with an emotionally unavailable person?’ Identify who you’re competing with
- Why Be The Other Woman (or The Other Man)?
- If None of Their Exes Had A Problem With It, Where Are They Now?
- Advice Wednesday: 7 Years of Flip-Flapping & Now He’s Proposed. What Should I Do?
- It’s OK To Call Time On The Casual Relationship You Didn’t Agree To
- Advice Wednesday: Why Is It Taking Months To Get Over Someone That I Wasn’t Even Into?
- Advice Wednesday: I Wasn’t Sure About My Boyfriend But Now That I Am, He Just Wants To Be Casual
- Advice Wednesday: Have I Misunderstood My Ex’s Unavailability?
- Don’t Be The Bridge Between Someone’s Old & New Relationship
- Advice Wednesday: My Workaholic Boyfriend Doesn’t Have My Back
- Advice Wednesday: I’m not over my ex–Opt out of my new relationship or see how things unfold?
- Advice Wednesday: He’s separated, we’ve been together for 2 years but he’s super-busy. Help!
- Advice Wednesday #8: Is He Really Not Over The Way He Broke Up With His Ex or Is It Just An Excuse?
- We Need To Talk About Narcissists: 20 Mindset Shifts To Help You Stop Crazy-Making Yourself
- Advice Wednesday #5: My Ex & I Are Very Close (Includes Nude Sleepovers)–Why Does He Sleep With Everyone But Me?
- If They Don’t Want A Relationship and You Do, You’re Incompatible (Don’t let ’em hold you back!)
- Advice Wednesday #3: Widowed & Hurt From First Relationship Breakup–Can I Trust Again After Mr Unavailable?
- When you consciously want a relationship but subconsciously feel bad about you & relationships, it’s a recipe for unavailability
- “Why did you get me to trust you?” Why walls can make us ripe for the charmers…
- About that time when I found out that a friend is dating an ex from Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl…
- Is emotional unavailability all that different from incompatibility?
- “No one will love you better” – what the what now?
- We’ve got to stop procrastinating in unavailable relationships
- Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions
- Did they just do a U-turn? When a person overestimates their level of interest or capacity for commitment
- Being passive and a pleaser can make you a sitting duck for unavailable relationships
- When they collect friendships with exes, get out of the harem!
- Moving past ambiguous situations: It’s OK to take a step back when they say that they’re not interested
- Buffers: When You’re The One That They Turn To When They’re Unhappy With Their Current Relationship
- For some of us, if we don’t have to hustle, we don’t feel interested
- Being the favourite child (or wanting to be) influences our disposition to be involved in an affair
- Future Faking is partly about using intentions to enhance self-image
- If You Can’t Be Casual About Casual Sex, It’s Not Casual Sex
- Some people habitually jeopardise their relationships in order to feel interest and desire
- ‘Time’ isn’t the only factor when considering dating a separated or recently divorced person
- Excerpt from The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship: Is Fantasising Ever Healthy?
- Revisited: Are you on standby? Why you’re not Mister / Miss Last Minute Option
- Activation: When Someone or Something Activates Old Issues
- About ‘going with the flow’
- Being Honest Isn’t An Automatic Precursor To Compliance
- Contradictions: I want to date but I don’t want a relationship but I don’t want to date someone who’s casual either
- Revisited: Is it love? Or is it fear, drama, and pain?
- Revisited: It’s JUST Christmas/The Holidays – Stay off the Relationship/Drama Crack
- Why Rebound Relationships & ‘Florencing’ Are Like Hospital Stays Or Retreats For The Emotionally Wounded
- When You’ve Got Non-Speak Like “It is what it is”, You’ve Got An Ambiguous Relationship That You Need To FLUSH!
- Indecision About You Isn’t Sexy Or Acceptable
- Revisited: The Justifying Zone
- Is It Time for You to Opt Out of the Disappointment Cycle?
- Getting Stuck On ‘Connection’ & Why I’m Working On Letting Go (Again)
- Are You Dealing With A ‘Chopper’? When Somebody Keeps Trying To Cut You Down
- What Learning About The Special Effects in Apollo 13 & Titanic Taught Me About Future Faking, Fantasy Relationships & Why We Get Carried Away
- Why Unhealthy Relationships Are The Equivalent Of A Power Struggle
- Dealing with Someone Who Blows Hot and Cold: Is It Worth It?
- Being Super-Busy: The Modern Lame Excuse For Managing Down Your Expectations
- Are You Too Eager For The Fairy Tale ‘Ending’? The Returning Childhood ‘Sweetheart’ Revisited
- Maybe I Can Do Better… Are You a Dating & Relationship ‘Surfer’?
- Are You Open To Interpretation? Why Healthy Relationships & Happiness Have No Room For Ambiguity
- The Importance Of Being Upfront With a Casual Relationship…Even If It Means The Possibility Of It Ending
- Future Faking Is Like The Emperor’s New Clothes
- Do You Really Need To Investigate What Someone’s Intentions Were Or Prove That You’re ‘Right’?
- Tips For Avoiding Text, Internet & Other Lazy Communication Based Relationships
- It’s Time To Stop Playing The Relationship Slot Machine
- When Someone Thinks That It’s Okay To Keep Disappointing You … But Not Others. Er… No It’s Not
- Excerpt From The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship On Getting Over Controlling The Uncontrollable
- Narcissistic Harem’s In A Nutshell – Why it’s time to stop envying the ex and various hanger-on’s
- Why Affairs Are Like Being Double-Crossed In A Heist
- Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They’re Not Interested Or Don’t Want The Relationship I Want?
- Chasing Crumbs & Perfection: In Pursuit of The Fantasy
- When They’re Not Over Their Ex: A Lesson In Empathy
- Are You On Standby? Why You’re Not Mr or Miss Last Minute Option
- Are you drowning in detail? The importance of heeding the ‘topline data’ of your relationship
- The Long-Shot Mentality – Are you setting yourself faux goals?
- The Dreamer & the Shopper: Have you inadvertently found yourself in a fantasy relationship?
- Excerpt from Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl: Renovators & Florences
- Excerpt from Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl 2nd edition: He Keeps a Foothold in Your Life
- They say they love / like you but… you’re the ‘wrong’ religion, colour, age etc
- Relationship Amnesia – When you keep forgettting what’s REALLY going on
- The Commitment Is in the Offing Ticking Time Bomb – Why do they back off when you reciprocate?
- Betting On Potential – Are You Gambling On a Relationship Capacity That Doesn’t Exist?
- Crumb Communications: If They Haven’t Got Time To Pick Up the Phone, They Haven’t Got Time For a Relationship
- The Quick Guide To Unavailable Relationships – Including Casual, Rebound, Affairs, Dalliances and Secret Relationships
- Transitionals & Rebound Relationships: What’s on their mind when they’re not over their ex but they’re involved with YOU?
- “There’s no such thing as an honest cheat” and other thoughts on cheating
- Why You’re Better Than Waiting Around For Someone To Make Up Their Mind or to Spontaneously Combust into Being Available
- Are You Hankering for the Zsa Zsa Zu or Chasing a ‘Feeling’?
- You’re Not Going Crazy: It Doesn’t Matter If They’re Unavailable or Not That Interested
- Rebound Relationships in a Nutshell: Transitionals, Buffers & Why You Should Step Away From The Light When They’re Not Over Their Ex
- Dating: He hasn’t made a move – What the..He’s gone back to his ex. Lessons on how to avoid being an emotional airbag
- Upgrading the Level of Commitment: When commitment schedules conflict
- Understanding Why You Find It Hard To Get Over Someone That Future Faked and Fast Forwarded
- Future Faking, Fast Forwarding and Being The Good Girl/Guy – When You’re Too Concerned With How You Look
- Quiz: How Commitment Resistant Are You?
- Advice: Where did I go wrong in my secret relationship with a woman that still lives with her ex?
- Casual Relationships: All The Fringe Benefits of a Relationship…Without The Actual Relationship
- Advice: Help! He Disappears, Doesn’t Call, Pops Up Every Fortnight and Gives Me a Magical Time. Is He Unavailable? Er…YEAH
- Quiz: Test Your Beliefs About Feeling and Receiving Interest From Others
- Fast-Forwarding: When Someone Speeds You Through Dating
- Understanding What Your Trust Points Were in Your Shady Relationship
- Make Me Official: The Obsession With Titles in Relationships.
- A Tale of Two Commitment Resistant Birds – Are you hiding your commitment fears behind someone else’s more obvious commitment issues?
- Hooks: Understanding What THEY Think Hooks You To Them & the Relationship and How This Can Be Exploited
- What Hooks You in Your Relationships? Understanding the combination of hooks, picturing & potential
- Did I scare away a Good Man? Did I push him away?
- Why Doesn’t My Emotionally Unavailable Guy/Assclown See a Committed Relationship With Me?
- Why Doesn’t He Envision a Committed Relationship With Me?
- Are you chasing your tail? Using dating several people, jealousy, possessiveness & an air of elusiveness to capture your man
- Understanding Why Dating Several People at a Time is Messy & a Sign of Your Emotional Unavailability & Commitment Resistance
- Getting Real About Recognising Inappropriate Relationship Behaviour: He Doesn’t Need To Cheat (or Beat) To Be An Assclown
- Am I Involved With an Assclown? How To Spot Someone Who Means You & the Relationship No Good
- Great Expectations: Are You Expecting Relationship Water From An Empty Relationship Well?
- It Started Out So Great – Why Can’t He Go Back To Being ‘That’ Guy?
- More Translations: I Will Never Fall in Love Again, I’m Just A Simple Guy & other such sayings
- (Dodgy) Men Translated: I Don’t Know How I Feel About You, I’m Suspicious of White People & Other Often Outrageous Statements
- More Translations: I Don’t Want To Hurt You, You’re Out of My League and other such sayings…
- Translated: I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You…and other such sayings
- Reader Question: What does it mean when a man says ‘I can’t give you want you want’?
- Excerpt: How To Lose An Assclown in 90 Days: Offloading The Fairy Tale Of Turning a Cockroach into a Frog into a Prince (P2)
- Offloading The Fairy Tale Of Turning a Cockroach into a Frog into a Prince (P1)
- Florence Nightingale: Why needing to fix/heal/help in the name of love is unhealthy (P2)
- Florence Nightingale: Why needing to fix/heal/help in the name of love is unhealthy (P1)
- Florence Nightingale: Women That Fix/Heal/Help and Empathy vs Sympathy
- This One Time In Band Camp & Buying Into Their Old Hurt (Part One)
- Reader Question: Do the sexual preferences & activities of Mr Unavailables indicate their feelings?
- Reader Question: Should I Wait for My Separated Guy?
- Is He Going to Leave His Wife/Girlfriend For Me? Part Two
- Is He Going To Leave His Wife/Girlfriend For Me? Part One
- Are you hanging with a solo thinker or a team player in your relationships?
- Terms & Conditions Apply: Reading the Small Print in Dubious Relationships
- Forget ‘Mr. Good Enough’, Mr Perfect & The Fairy Tale: Get Real So You Can Get Happy
- Mr Unavailable: He’s not thinking about the future, he’s thinking about right now!
- Your Love Does Not Equal Their Love
- Future Fakers: Understanding Why Someone Fakes a Future With You
- Guest Post: If you have to wonder if your man is going to spend Christmas with you-run!
- 10 Things You Can Learn About Cheating from the Tiger Woods Saga
- Mr Unavailables and Assclowns: Shedding Crocodile Tears Part Two
- Mr Unavailables and Assclowns: Shedding Crocodile Tears Part One
- Mr Unavailables & Assclowns: Sharing an absence of pride
- When Mr Unavailables and assclowns use ridiculous statements to justify their poor behaviour
- The Fallback Girl: The Girl Who Cried Wolf
- Standing By Your (Broken) Man – Part Three
- Standing By Your (Broken) Man – Part Two
- Standing By Your (Broken) Man – Part One
- When Mr Unavailables and Assclowns Drip-feed You Info Part Three
- When Mr Unavailables and Assclowns Drip-feed You Info Part Two
- When Mr Unavailables and Assclowns Drip-Feed You Info Part One
- Maintaining your position in and out of your relationships – Part Two
- Maintaining your position in and out of your relationships – Part One
- Having too much faith and seeing too much potential in relationships Part Two
- Having too much faith and seeing too much potential in relationships Part One
- Becoming isolated in relationships – Part Three
- Becoming isolated in relationships – Part Two
- Becoming isolated in relationships – Part One
- Getting in the head of Mr Unavailables and Assclowns: If I was that bad, she wouldn’t be with me
- Normalising Bad Behaviour in your Relationships
- Does my ex Mr Unavailable or assclown miss me?
- When your love gets interpreted as desperation
- Defining Assclowns: Men you shouldn’t want to date Part Two
- Defining Assclowns: Men you shouldn’t want to date: Part One
- Is it love? Or is it fear, drama and pain?
- Are men really like rubber bands? The Bigger Picture (Part 3)
- Are men really like rubber bands? Understanding retreating (Part Two)
- He Doesn’t Have to Say It’s Over for It to Be Over
- Why you shouldn’t wait for him to make a decision about you
- The Trap of the (Returning) Childhood ‘Sweetheart’ Part 2
- The Trap of the (Returning) Childhood ‘Sweetheart’ Part 1
- Reader Advice: Is my ex boyfriend emotionally unavailable, weird, or scared?
- Reader Advice: Help me understand my commitment-phobic obsessive ex!
- Mixing Up Optimism, Fear, and Denial in your Relationships – Just DO something
- Why you should be wary of any man that is reliant on text messaging, email, and instant messenger!
- Shades of Grey: Contact is Contact, Emotionally Unavailable is Emotionally Unavailable
- How To Lose An Assclown in 90 Days Excerpt: The Trap of Compassion & Projection with Assclowns
- Men That Live With Their Mothers
- Relationship Advice: Am I addicted to my lying, cheating ex Mr Unavailable?
- Relationship Advice: Help! I’m not part of his life plan and he wants to move out and sofa surf!
- Reader Question: Why can’t Mr Unavailables either let go of their ex or return to them?
- Reader Question: Is it normal to want revenge on my married assclown?
- If he doesn’t end the relationship, why can’t you end the relationship?
- Advice: Do I make men nervous or are these men just assclowns?
- Advice: Help! I’m the Other Woman to the Other Woman: Does this sound like a man in love?
- Shedding Tears for an Assclown
- Meeting His Parents – Totally Overated…and possibly misleading
- Relationship Advice: What if he’s just not that into me instead of being Mr Unavailable?
- Women Who Talk (& Think) Too Much – Wasting time explaining & discussing with men that don’t want to listen
- Relationship Advice: Should I tell my friend that he’s emotionally unavailable?
- Relationship Advice: Am I right not to go back to my flip-flapping divorcee?
- Reader Question: Is control more important for Mr Unavailable than being with you?
- Guest Post: Don’t Envy The “Other” Women Who End Up With Mr Unavailable. It could be karma…
- Relationship advice: I ‘think’ my sister is sleeping with my Mr Unavailable
- Famous Mr Unavailables and Fallback Girls: Sienna Miller
- Famous Mr Unavailables and Fallback Girls: John Mayer
- Guest Post: Emotionally Unavailable Men – Understanding the girl after you
- Reader Question: What does an emotionally unavailable man do when a relationship ends?
- Relationship Advice: Help me get away from my drunken, cheating boyfriend
- Relationship advice: She won’t take a hint. Also, Am I an assclown?
- Relationship Advice: My boyfriend says that I’m ‘Needy’ because I want more. Am I?
- Relationship Advice: I didn’t know that I was the Other Woman. Help!
- Living in Denial with your Relationships
- Do emotionally unavailable men change?
- Does emotionally unavailable equal ‘He’s just not that into you’? Why do we care?
- Why you will always be a Yo-Yo Girl if you don’t maintain the No Contact Rule
- The Fallback Girl is Mr Unavailable’s Disgruntled Customer
- Understanding the The Cheater
- Relationship Advice Guest Post: Am I wasting my time with my mixed signals guy?
- Relationship Advice: Should I stick by emotionally unavailable army guy?
- Singing Your Way to Emotional Unavailability
- Emotional Unavailability: He Blows Hot & Cold – You become ‘The Pursuer’
- Relationship Advice: Help! He’s left his wife but I’m still the Other Woman!
- Relationship Advice: How do I forgive my narcissist ex and my friend for flirting and the private dance?
- Mr Big and Carrie: The most famous Mr Unavailable and Fallback Girl of all time?
- Relationship advice: Why is she the girlfriend and I’m the Fallback Girl/Other Woman?
- Relationship Advice: He’s abusive and possibly a narcissist but I love him. Will he change?
- Guest post: Love’s Antihero – Insatiable Restless Souls
- Relationship Advice: Should I tell my boyfriend that I’ve been cheating on him?
- How to end up being the Other Woman
- Relationship Advice: Is he ever going to commit to me? How do I get him to listen?
- Carrying Men’s Excess Emotional Baggage (Part 2) It’s time to check in your baggage
- Carrying Men’s Excess Emotional Baggage (Part 1)
- Betting On Potential in Relationships
- Guest post: Passion…or Drama?
- Guest post: The Drama Blame Game
- Guest post: No More Drama
- The Status Quo: A Quick lesson in the dynamics of drama
- Did I chase or scare him away?
- Guest post: How to demagnetize a Drama Magnet…
- What drives a Drama Seeker’s need for attention and Relationship Crack?
- Guest Post: Why YOU Are The Problem: The Repeater Boyfriend
- Are Emotionally Unavailable Men Narcissists?
- I’m not seeing anybody else.Yes but he’s not actually with you either!
- When Sex is Just Sex: It is what it is but how about the guys speak up!
- The Justifying Zone: when a woman needs to justify her emotional or sexual investment
- Is women loving jerks and Bad Boys really a dating myth?
- Advice: What’s the difference between emotionally unavailable and he just wants to break up?
- Advice: Do emotionally unavailable men change or should we just have an open marriage?
- Being The Other Woman: The Lessons I Learned Part 3
- Being The Other Woman: The Lessons I Learned Part 2
- Being The Other Woman: The Lessons I Learned Part 1
- Advice: Help me understand how my emotionally unavailable man has been treating me
- Advice: Why did he respond if he’s not interested in me?
- Advice: Help! I’m a Yo-Yo Girl that feels bad for ending my Boomerang Relationship
- Advice: Does tragedy or trauma attract emotionally unavailable men?
- Advice: Why is he having sex with me if he doesn’t want me and knows how I feel about him?
- Advice: Does polygamy work, because I love three women?
- Advice: How do I let go of my Mr Unavailable?
- Advice: Is he returning because he loves me or am I the Fallback Girl?
- Advice: Can I keep it light with Mr Unavailable and bail out before I get hurt?
- Advice: Why her and not me? The Other Woman gone very wrong
- Advice: Where did I go wrong? The trap of the emotionally unavailable, inconsistent woman
- Advice: Why do bastards change into ideal partners?
- It’s not about blaming yourself with emotionally unavailable men
- Advice: He’s miserly with his time, money, and himself
- Advice: He had his dating profile active and we’re in a relationship
- Why do men blow hot and cold?
- Advice: How do I deal with my abusive boyfriend?
- ‘I Can Change Him’ Syndrome/Fixer Uppers
- He’s Just Not That Into Booty Calls?
- Can a Booty Call Grow Into a Relationship?
- Advice: Am I right not to be too quick to commit?
- Boomerang Relationships & The Yo-Yo Girl
- So What is Commitment-Phobia?
- Guest Post: Women Who Don’t Leave
- Does Emotionally Unavailable Equal ‘He’s Just Not That Into You?’
- Guest Post: Real Life – I Married a Serial Cheater
- The 2007 A-Z of Men
- How To Cope With Being The Other Woman
- How to Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men
- Should You Confront The Other Woman?
- Advice: Is he cheating? Am I being naive?
- Signs That You May Have an Abusive Boyfriend
- Achy Breaky Heart
- Signs That He’s Cheating
- Challenging Your Role of Being The Other Woman
- 10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex
- Guest Post: Why Can’t We All Just Be Perfect?
- Guest Post: Wanting Mr Unavailables = Being Miss Unavailable
- Signs That You Are Not Into Him
- Bad Boy Lovers
- Five Reasons Men Leave Women They Love
- Being The Other Woman Revisited: It’s straight talking time.
- Guest Post: Does Your Man Have A Secret? – How To Tell If Your Boyfriend is Gay
- Guest Post: Tips For Avoiding Mr Unavailables on Dating Sites
- Can I Build a Relationship on Just Sex?
- How To Cope With Being The Other Woman
- Guest Post: Dating Hiatus, A Status Report
- 9 Quick Tips for Breaking the Mr (or Miss) Unavailable Habit
- I Want Your Sex – How do we react to ‘just sex’?
- Signs That He’s Cheating – Real Life
- Great Dysfunctional Sex
- Is He Emotionally Unavailable? How To Spot Emotionally Unavailable Men
- Great Sex Does Not Equal Love
- Open-Ended Relationships: When You Think You’ll Get Back Together
- Guest Post: How I Know I’m Not Ready For A Committed Relationship
- Dealing With Being The Rebound Girl
- Introducing Miss Commitment-Phobe
- Fixer Upper
- Chasing the Bad Boy: Do women thrive on drama?
- The ‘Ting’ & Friends With Benefits
- Jump Off the Merry-Go-Round & Say NO to Relationship Crack
- NML’s Tale of The Unavailable
- My Guide to Being FWFs -Friends Who F*ck/Fumble aka F*ck Buddies
- Guest Post: Mr Unavailable – When a Woman Won’t Heed The Signs
- Why Do Men Lose Interest?
- What Makes You Cheat?
- Dog In a Manger – When they don’t want you but don’t want anyone else to want you either
- Is it me? Is it us? Is it these emotionally unavailable guys?
- The Trouble With Being Involved With Mommy’s Boys and Men That Hate Their Mothers
- There’s Something About Mr Unavailable – The Emotionally Unavailable Man
